2012年7月25日 星期三

風球下的争執

From a blog:


看完呢這個報導,我真係覺得該班乘客極度野蠻, 只會擔心自己能否回家, 疏略前線工作人員的安危, 回想起過去讀書時期, 即大約10年前, 眾人皆知掛8 號風球後,所有交通公具將會全部停駛, 今時今日港鐵因應時化變遷, 8號風球依然為乘客服務, 但乘客從不體諒, 認為是應份的, 他們沒有考慮到司機的安全, 什至自己的安全, 本港曾有試過打風把船隻吹上岸, 基本上沒有想像會發生的事情均有機會發生, 何況鐵路? 巴士? 乘客們因沒有地鐵接載回家, 鼓譟並投訴沒有接駁巴士, 當時正值9號風球, 你作為一間交通工具機構願意吹反巴士的風險嗎? 當日如果有接駁巴士,一輛巴士如載200人, 萬一反了就會做成200人傷亡, 到時又會指責港鐵安全意識不足, 要求提交報告及道歉, 試問作為一間為市民服務的機構, 是否就要無了期受到外界指責? 

9號風球不只是司機潛在危險, 還有一班因斷電纜而要外勤搶修的維修人員, 因樹木倒塌而要出外鋸斷樹枝的工作人員, 他們比起外勤直播天氣的記者還要危險, 他們沒有得到讚賞, 還因這次事件承受壓力, 嚴重打擊士氣, 自私的市民你們可以說職員受薪, 要付出, 要工作, 但如果你們的子女在港鐵工作, 你會擔心嗎? 還會這樣口出狂言嗎?

基本上5時40分發出8號東北烈風或暴風信, 至深夜11時20分發出9號烈風或暴風增強信號, 中間有6小時容許你們乘車回家, 亦能夠選擇其他交通工具, 為何一定要乖搭港鐵? 你們更可以留在原地的安全地方, 為何永要把責任推在港鐵身上? 颱風當晚東鐵壞車以致乘客被困車箱,我可以理解, 但只是在站內的市民為何見到數百人滯留在站內還要等?

據明報報導 "至凌晨2時44分,港鐵以拖車把3列失靈列車及數百乘客拖到火炭、大學及大埔墟站。港鐵職員雖已為乘客提供飲用水,並派發紙皮讓乘客可在站內休息,但不少又倦又怒的乘客斥責港鐵職員﹕「我由8號風球等到10號風球,你卻話無車?我點返屋企?」"
上述一段文字的乘客, 請問你是什麼時間的8號風球開始等, 為何你知道9號-10號風球還要繼續等, 港鐵宣報因安全理由要停駛, 你依然要等, 責任在何處? 加上過了每晚的尾班車, 你仍然在站內等候"相信"有車...責任又在哪?

這次事件港鐵因應外面天氣惡劣開放站供市民休息已經仁至義盡, 反遭人說安排不週, 請問下次如有同類事件是否要全部市民趕離車站, 你們才滿意呢? 港鐵亦因為某些野蠻乘客而付予的士車資而被指責賠償準則不公, 對不起...這個不是賠償, 只是為了最快解決某些野蠻乘客的最快方法, 你願意被標籤為野蠻人嗎?

就此事件可見香港市民質素逐漸下降,~自私, 野蠻
希望有為此事要求港鐵賠償及道歉的市民反思, 並祝你們的下一代不會在港鐵工作

最後更要求立法會議員鄭家富收回"道歉論" ,並向港鐵員工道歉
可以嘅話,傳出去!

2012年7月5日 星期四

自由花

唔知點解, 今日腦里面不斷哼住呢首歌- <自由花>


忘不了的,年月也不會蠶蝕 
心中深處始終也記憶那年那夕 
曾經痛惜,年月裏轉化為力 
一點真理,一個理想永遠地尋覓 

悠悠長長繼續前航不懂去驚怕 
荊荊棘棘通通斬去不必多看它 
浮浮沉沉昨日人群雖不說一話 
不想清楚分析太多真心抑意假 

但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧 

忘不了的,留下了不死意識 
深深相信始終會變真某年某夕 
如此訊息,仍賴你跟我全力 
加一把勁,將這理想繼續在尋覓 

悠悠長長繼續前航不懂去驚怕 
荊荊棘棘通通斬去不必多看它 
浮浮沉沉昨日人群雖不說一話 
不想清楚分析太多真心抑意假 

但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧 

但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
無論雨怎麼打,自由仍是會開花 
但有一個夢,不會死,記著吧 
來自你我的心,記著吧

2012年6月28日 星期四

Inside the Brains of Bieber Fans

From Wall Street Journal:

What's Behind Bieber Fever? Neuroscience Offers Explanation; a 'Safe' Infatuation


The symptoms include uncontrollable screaming, swooning and spending hours on Twitter and Facebook . It primarily affects preteen and teen girls, yet it is highly contagious and can infect mothers, too. In severe cases, sufferers camp out on sidewalks for days. "The appeal for me is, of course, that he's beautiful," says 15-year-old Emma Reeves of Madison, Conn., who has seen Justin Bieber twice in concert. "It's hard to find people who are successful, nice and care about other people and he has it all!"
By disease standards, "Bieber Fever" is approaching a global pandemic with the release of the 18-year-old pop star's latest album, "Believe," last week.
Hearing familiar, favorite music stimulates the release of dopamine, the neurotransmitter involved in pleasure and addiction, providing the same rush as eating chocolate or that winning does for a compulsive gambler, says neuroscientist Daniel Levitin, who was able to observe the process using fMRI scans in his lab at McGill University in Montreal.Compared with past outbreaks of fan mania, scientists now have a better understanding of why teens—girls in particular—become so passionate about some musicians, and the recording industry is far more adept at exploiting the phenomenon. Parents of star-struck "Bieliebers"—as his fans are sometimes known—can be assured, experts say, that what looks like mass hysteria is a harmless stage in adolescent development. Long before the Beatles, Elvis and Frank Sinatra, frenzied female fans threw their clothing at 19th century pianist and composer Franz Liszt and fought over locks of his hair, say music historians.
Dr. Levitin's research also showed that musical tastes formed in the teen years become part of the brain's internal wiring, as that is the time when some neural pathways are solidifying and others are being pruned away. That's why the music adults tend to be nostalgic for is the music from their teenage years.
Boys also develop musical tastes in this phase of life, but adolescent girls are far more likely to become infatuated with pop stars, experts say, because they are awakening to romantic and sexual feelings that are both intoxicating and scary. Having a crush on a celebrity they are unlikely to meet is a way to try out such feelings at a safe distance. "A lot of girls I know practiced their first kiss on a poster. I don't think that's changed at all," says Mark Rubinfeld, professor and chair of sociology at Westminster College in Salt Lake City.

Social critics worry about fans as hysterical, emotional girls and loner, stalker boys," says Joli Jensen, a professor of communications at the University of Tulsa, Okla. "Neither stereotype captures the experience of most fans—pleasurable, insider knowledge, playful imaginative connections about a public figure whose persona has particular appeal."
Boys are more likely to follow athletes intensely—partly out of a desire to emulate them and partly because rooting for a team conveys a sense of identity, psychologists say. Some of that carries into adulthood, as men paint themselves with team colors or skip work on game day.
The music industry fuels girls' fantasies by promoting stars with sweet, boyish looks for as long as possible. "In my era, in the '60s and '70s, Tiger Beat and other teen music magazines would airbrush out the stubble on the teen idols," says Dr. Levitin, author of "This Is Your Brain on Music," who was a record producer before turning to neuroscience.
The songs are carefully calculated to play into young girls' romantic fantasies, from the Beatles' "I Want to Hold Your Hand" to Mr. Bieber's latest song "Boyfriend" with lyrics "If I was your boyfriend, I'd never let you go." (Representatives for Mr. Bieber didn't return requests for comment.)
"I've seen girls cry in the front row because they've touched his hand. I guess it's like tears of joy," says Isabelle Hunt, age 10, of Cranford, N.J., who heard Mr. Bieber at the Apollo Theater in New York last week.
Social media has brought celebrities closer to fans, or it at least gives that illusion. "When I was younger, it was Shaun Cassidy, and we had to wait a week to see him on TV again," says Mathilde Forsell, a nurse in Westfield, N.Y., whose daughter, Carley Dugan, is a Bielieber. "Now, they can download videos 24 hours a day."
Mr. Bieber's 44 million fans on Facebook and 23 million followers on Twitter receive almost hourly updates on where he is and what he's thinking. On Sunday he tweeted love for his fans, and also this: "so the #Believe Zinepak is ONLY at Walmart. It has the deluxe CD and all the exclusive pics and content including interview and cards."
Fan fever has gone too far when children neglect school work, chores and real relationships in favor of fantasy love, experts say. "Too much is being on a computer for five or six hours a night following Justin Bieber blogs," says psychologist Alan Ravitz at the Child Mind Institute, a New York nonprofit research and treatment organization. Parents can go overboard in facilitating an infatuation, too. "A person who mortgages their house to go to New York and sleep on the sidewalk—that's an issue. But a parent taking time out of work to help their kid do something they really enjoy, that's OK," says psychologist Patrick Markey of Villanova University in Villanova, Pa. Some studies also show that children who go along with their peer groups tend to be the most well-adjusted, provided the activities aren't dangerous, Dr. Markey notes. "It may drive you crazy as parents to hear their music, but it's a sign of psychological health."
Other experts say this sort of fan behavior isn't healthy. "Contrary to popular belief, there is nothing even slightly developmentally normal or healthy about 'Bieber Fever' and similar teen extremisms," says psychologist Robert Epstein, author of "Teen 2.0: Saving Our Children and Families from the Torment of Adolescence" and other books. He argues that parents should help their offspring recognize the hype and commercialization. "I'm all about fantasies for my 6- and 7-year-olds. But past a certain point, Santa Claus has to die," Dr. Epstein says.
Young music fans probably see through the fantasies more than parents realize. Lili Foggle, mother of two girls, ages 14 and 12, in Madison, Conn., says her daughters lost interest in Justin Bieber when he started dating actress and singer Selena Gomez. "The whole attraction was that he could really be your boyfriend. He's still selling that, but the older girls aren't buying it anymore," she says.
I used to be, like, madly in love with Justin Bieber. Now I still like him, but I don't really love him, and I don't scream so much anymore," says Mrs. Forsell's daughter, Carley, age 11. She says she now prefers One Direction, a new boy band from Britain. Says Mrs. Forsell, "That's part of growing up too."

Funny...

From a friend's blog:


淘宝上一件商品的一条评价:“我穿着这件新买的斗篷去面包店,因为冷,把胳膊缩在里面。面包店老板以为我是失去双臂的残疾人,坚决不收钱,而且很贴心地把面包袋挂在我的脖子上…为了不让店主失望,我用头顶开了门,走了出来…”

2012年6月25日 星期一

梁唐處理僭建的異同

From Appledaily @ June 26, 2012


梁振英大宅的僭建醜聞,越揭越多,除了花棚、車庫、花架等,還有一個二百四十呎的地牢,跟唐英年的僭建風波不遑多讓了。兩人處理態度迥異,也反映他們人格、性格及施政風格的不同。

唐英年被揭發在約道大宅僭建地下唐宮時,先是迴避,然後以「掘深咗」、「不記得何時興建」、「雜物房」等藉口,企圖大事化小,到最後由太太出面承擔責任,過程拖拖拉拉,十足十唐英年的處事風格。


相反,梁振英被揭僭建後,第一時間找人拆掉,毀屍滅迹之餘,也大方承認,並自己定調為無心之失;到揭發更多僭建後,他辯稱入住十多年都不知道是僭建,那個地牢也一直空置。總之,不斷迅速作出回應,讓公眾覺得他做了很多事,並極速改正錯誤,這很符合梁振英的性格:快刀斬亂麻,做事果斷!


除了回應速度不一樣,兩人對公眾反應的敏感度也不可同日而語。唐英年被迫承認僭建時,原本承諾開放讓記者入內拍攝,但最後出爾反爾,以致大批攝影記者要坐在吊車上,日以繼夜守候門外,形成一道奇景,最後成為唐英年僭建風波的標誌,令事件更深入人心,對唐英年的民望造成更大衝擊。


梁振英就不一樣了,他獲揭發此醜聞的某報總編輯提前一天通知,立即找人清拆,第二晚並開放傳媒入內拍攝,親自向記者解釋。表面上很開放的讓記者拍攝,其實記者能拍到的地方很有限,地牢只能看到小部份。


很明顯,唐英年的公關是災難性的,他公開回應的說話也很愚蠢,加上口齒不清,讓人覺得他有所隱瞞,那種吊兒郎當的公子哥兒性格表露無遺。而梁振英的公關手腕了得,他好像講了很多話,迅速回應了公眾疑問,但實際上他甚麼也沒解釋清楚,只是不斷強調自己做了很多事,也諮詢過專業人士。例如,他宣佈有意參選時表示,已找專業人士檢查,大宅絕無僭建物,但事實有六處僭建,如何解釋呢?是專業人士失職,還是梁振英根本沒找人檢查,只是信口開河的謊言呢?


事實上,我們看到梁振英不斷的諉過他人,包括說僭建物都是買入時已存在,但他之前說過,收樓時請了兩名律師及一名建築師協助。難道是這三師疏忽,導致他誤墮僭建陷阱?只要稍加注意,就可發現梁振英的話前後矛盾,不斷以謊言掩飾。例如最初他一口咬定他不知雜物房是僭建的,其後改口稱數月前懷疑此乃僭建,只因太忙沒空處理。


從他狡辯、千方百計掩飾,見盡梁振英的狡獪,也證明唐英年當日指控他「你呃人」的「大話英」,是多麼的有先見性。事件再次印證:唐英年是蠢豬,梁振英是奸狼!

小時候

From Appledaily @ June 26, 2012


<小時候向女 DJ求愛 粉絲守諾賺百萬>

湖南交通頻道美女 DJ小海的愛情故事,近日引發網友熱議。11年前,一名讀中一的小粉絲寫信給她說:「你可不可以做我女朋友?」她覺得他很可愛,就回覆說:「好,但要等你清華或北大畢業了,掙到第一個100萬(人民幣.下同)了再來找我。」前日,長大成人的小男孩說:「小海姐姐,我做到了!」
「這種小孩的玩笑,大家也都經歷過吧。」當年的小海才剛入行,每天都會收到不少來信。她記不清是做兒童節目或音樂節目時,一名小男孩歪歪扭扭地寫:「能不能做我女朋友?」她沒多在意,就隨意寫下幾句勵志的話。之後通過幾次信,她也認識了那「高高瘦瘦,長得挺白」的小男孩,但後來再沒聯繫。
「你還記得我嗎?我做到了。」11年後的前天,一名男子打來的電話,讓小海「瞬間有種時空交錯的感覺」。當年的小男孩告訴她,現在他身在北京,剛和朋友完成一單生意,終於賺到了100萬。

「姑姑從了過兒吧」

小海坦言若不是他在電話裏說起,根本記不起來,但回憶起當年他的青澀真「有些感動」,也感慨:「原來我已經這麼老了。」
不少網友都感嘆小海的經歷像個童話,大呼「太美好了,完全是偶像劇的情節」,不過故事的結局並沒想像中那麼浪漫。兩人沒說太多,男方祝小海端午節快樂,然後只說「有機會大家一起吃個飯」,而且小海已有了男朋友。但有人仍將她們比喻為《神鵰俠侶》的主角,打趣說:「姑姑,就從了過兒吧。」

2012年6月20日 星期三

Quotes from Aung San Suu Kyi

“In societies where men are truly confident of their own worth, women are not merely tolerated but valued."


“If you're feeling helpless, help someone. ” 


“It is not power that corrupts but fear. Fear of losing power corrupts those who wield it and fear of the scourge of power corrupts those who are subject to it.” 


“The only real prison is fear, and the only real freedom is freedom from fear” 


“You should never let your fears prevent you from doing what you know is right.” 


“Fear is a habit; I am not afraid.” 


“We will surely get to our destination if we join hands.” 


“To view the opposition as dangerous is to misunderstand the basic concepts of democracy. To oppress the opposition is to assault the very foundation of democracy.” 


“Government leaders are amazing. So often it seems they are the last to know what the people want.” 


“Saints, it has been said, are the sinners who go on trying. So free men and women are the oppressed who go on trying and who in the process make themselves fit to bear the responsibilities and uphold the disciplines which will maintain a free society.”